NILA AYDIN Request an Introductory Call

Free resource

First 30 Days as a Manager — Checklist

A practical checklist for your first month leading a team. Print it, work through it weekly, and treat it as a collection of prompts — not homework.

Questions for your own manager

Ask these in your first week.

  • What does a good first quarter look like from your perspective?
  • Which decisions can I make alone, and which do you want to be involved in?
  • What is the one thing about this team I should know but probably do not?
  • How do you prefer to receive updates — format and frequency?

Information to gather from the team

One conversation per person, same three questions.

  • What are you actually responsible for — in your own words?
  • What is blocking your work right now?
  • If you could change one thing about how this team works, what would it be?
  • Write the answers down. Patterns appear from the third conversation on.

Your one-to-one structure

  • Schedule a recurring one-to-one with every direct report — weekly or biweekly.
  • Keep a shared running agenda; both sides add topics during the week.
  • Their topics first, yours second, actions written down last.
  • Do not cancel it for status updates — status has other channels.

Expectations that need to be made explicit

  • What “done” means for the team’s recurring work.
  • Normal response times — and what counts as urgent.
  • What gets escalated to you, and what the team decides alone.
  • How decisions are made when you are not available.

Common first-month mistakes to avoid

  • Proving yourself by staying the best individual contributor.
  • Reorganizing the team or processes before understanding them.
  • Making hiring or firing decisions in the first month.
  • Promising the team changes you have not yet secured upward.
  • Skipping one-to-ones because “everything seems fine”.

Weekly planning — 15 minutes at the end of each week

  • What did I learn about the team this week?
  • Which expectation turned out to be unclear?
  • What am I still doing that someone else should own?
  • What is the one priority for next week?

Personal notes

Keep a single running document. One honest paragraph per week beats a perfect system you abandon by week three.

Want structure for the full 90 days?

The First 90 Days as a Manager is a six-session program covering delegation, feedback, boundaries, difficult conversations, and your personal roadmap.

Request an Introductory Call